Nice to have you here! In this post we talk about how to get more dances in the socials, festivals and parties, no matter what dance skills or other qualities we have! And no matter if we dance kizomba, urban kiz, salsa, bachata or any other social dance.
This is an excerpt from one of my books - "The Secrets of Social Dance - How to Become a Popular Dancer" which you can find on Amazon.
"So far, we have covered a lot of topics that are not dance related, and also pretty quick and easy to fix. If you still struggle to get dances, even if you have made all these quick fixes, I have a couple of more tips for you.
First of all, think of how you can reverse the things we talked about in the part about Invitation Smarts. I mean, if we, on the one hand, want to avoid rejection, we have to find the right moment to invite. We have to be smart about it and ask people when they are most likely to say yes. But if we also want to be invited more often, we can reverse engineer it from the same text.
We have to make it easy to invite. And since everyone has some kind of fear of rejection, we have to make it seem likely that we will say yes. We have to be approachable. Here are some ways to achieve that:
These are some tips that can dramatically change the number of invites you get. In short, make it easy to invite.
In addition to the above, you can also try this:
Once you are seen on the floor, you tend to be invited more. Especially if it seems you are enjoying the dances. It shows you have the right attitude and are easy to have fun with.
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